Sometimes, particularly after ridding myself of a crush upon realising they're undesirable, I'll 'seek out' a new crush...like deliberately look for someone to focus my attentions on...when I find a suitable candidate, it starts as increased interest, then escalates into a full blown crush :(
Does anyone else obtain crushes in this way?
Does anyone else obtain crushes in this way?
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Re: Crushes as something to focus on...?
Sat, May 5, 2007 - 5:58 PMYes I do, it means you're lonely.
I basically do the same thing when I get bored, (not really knowing I am bored of course)
And when this does happen, I hop from one crush to the next, literally week to week.
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Re: Crushes as something to focus on...?
Sat, May 5, 2007 - 9:55 PMi never seek out my crushes.
usually something just happens,
usually its the first time i see them i have some sort of intense reaction, usually hate, then for some reason i end up always falling for that person.
i find it odd.
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Re: Crushes as something to focus on...?
Sun, May 6, 2007 - 12:07 PMHmm. I don't try to make a negative judgement about a crush unless they make it their business to force me to make a call. As for how I obtain them, well, I don't set out to, if that is what you are asking.
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Re: Crushes as something to focus on...?
Sun, May 6, 2007 - 6:35 PMI've found that to happen to me. Am just now realizing that a lot of it is my ADD (I believe) seeking a new stimuli.
