Hes all I ever dreamed of, and more. Tall, dark, and handsome.
I've seen him online on a random site(myspace) and fell in love.
But I lived in a different state and figured I would never meet him.
Until the day my parents decided to move me to the middle of nowhere. Ok so now I live by him, but that still doesnt mean i'll meet him, hes a year older, and our classes wont be the same. Atleast thats what I thought.
Sometimes I dont give myself the credit I deserve. I am smart. Infact, for a girl my age, i'm beyond the limit. So what happens? 4 out of my 7 classes are with him. The first day I saw him my heart sank below the floor. We didnt talk for a couple of months, but eventually we started to talk, and now he thinks we're good friends. He has me on his top 8, with a bunch of other idiotic girls. We flirt constantly, but he gives me mixed signals. If I pay attention to him, he doesnt pay any to me. And if I don't pay attention.. he goes nuts. He is the only person I am confortable around. He has asked me for my # a billion times when we first started to talk, but I said no. I didnt want to be another girl on his list. I was in denial. Now I realize I would do anything just to see him for 5 minutes. I find myself waking up and going to school just to see him.
I asked him to come to a party with me and he said he'd love to, but he couldnt make it because he had a tournament. He just got back with his ex, and she is jealous of me. She sees me and him talk, and she tries to find out info about me all the time.
He still flirts with me every day.
I feel a strange bond with him I dont feel with anybody else.
Whenever we see eachother we cant help but smile.
We finish eachothers sentences as if we plan on it.
I want him for myself, and I don't know what to do.
- A love struck teenager.
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Re: A love struck teenager needs help.
Wed, February 28, 2007 - 4:14 PMDon't do anything for one week. Act like usual.
Then, say to him after school, "Sometimes I wish I were your girlfriend." Wink at him and leave.
Crucial: When you next see him, act like nothing unusual happened. Act like usual until he makes the next move.
Actually, though, to me, it doesn't sound like you'll have to do anything!
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Re: A love struck teenager needs help.
Wed, February 28, 2007 - 4:50 PMKey. "he just got back with his ex"? That means that you are thinking of poaching, right? Not good in most instances. What makes you think you can handle re-exing his de-exed ex and that he wouldn't do that same thing to you eventually were the circumstances reversed?
The following website for practical women is full of information on how to form a decent opinion on relationship questions...and how to spot mythical nice guys, etc:
heartlessbitches.com/
Good luck. May you not feel like you have to break up someone else's relationship to have a decent one of your own. In most instances that is unnecessary and counter-productive...if memory serves.
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Re: A love struck teenager needs help.
Thu, March 1, 2007 - 12:46 PMif it is meant to be it will be.
don't do anything.
in this situation its best to just have fun and see what happens.
don't chase or you will be chasing always with him